I have written a blog about what it means to be a high value man or woman before but my recent posts have made me need to revisit and write about it again. In a society that often tries to define a woman's worth based on external factors & low body count, it's important to recognize and celebrate the true essence of what a high value woman is. This week I encountered some really shallow views from men that decided I am not high value because I am a solo mum and because at times I will wear a filter for fun. My blog post this week aims to debunk the worldly views of “high value” and shed light on the qualities that make a woman truly high value. Additionally, I will briefly touch upon the characteristics that define high value men, acknowledging their importance as well.
1. Self-Confidence and Self-Love:
A high value woman exudes self-confidence and embraces self-love. She knows her worth and does not seek validation from others. Instead, she recognizes her own strengths, celebrates her achievements, and embraces her flaws. Her self-assuredness radiates, inspiring others to do the same.
2. Ambition and Drive:
High value women are driven by their ambitions and goals. They have a clear vision of what they want to achieve and work tirelessly to make it a reality. Whether it's excelling in their careers, pursuing higher education, or making a difference in their communities, their determination and perseverance set them apart.
3. Emotional Intelligence and Empathy:
High value women possess emotional intelligence and empathy. They have the ability to understand and connect with others on a deeper level. They listen attentively, offer support, and show genuine care for the well-being of those around them. Their compassion and understanding create meaningful relationships and foster a sense of belonging.
4. Independence and Resilience:
High value women are independent and resilient. They are not afraid to stand on their own and take charge of their lives. They navigate challenges with grace, learning from setbacks and using them as stepping stones to grow stronger. Their resilience inspires others and serves as a reminder of the power within.
5. Authenticity and Self-Expression:
High value women embrace their authenticity and express themselves freely. They are unapologetically themselves, refusing to conform to societal expectations or norms. Their unique perspectives and voices contribute to a diverse and inclusive society, encouraging others to embrace their own individuality.
High Value Men:
While the focus of this blog post is on high value women, it's important to acknowledge the qualities that define high value men as well. High value men exhibit integrity, respect, and kindness. They prioritize personal growth, emotional intelligence, and strive to make a positive impact in the lives of those around them. Their character and values complement the qualities of high value women, creating a harmonious balance in relationships and society.
I have worked relentlessly on myself for over a decade to possess these qualities. From the way I think, the way I feel about myself, work through a lot of the traumatic experiences I encountered as a child. I have worked hard on making sure that I am a person of value and that I'm creating value in the world. I am extremely proud of the woman I am today and so what others think of me does not dictate who I am.
A high value women defy insecurities and celebrate their self-worth. Their self-confidence, ambition, emotional intelligence, independence and authenticity make them truly valuable individuals. So I hope we embrace and appreciate the high value women in our lives, recognizing their unique qualities and contributions. And while we celebrate high value women, let us also acknowledge the importance of high value men, who exhibit integrity and kindness.
I hope we as a society can learn to value and uplift each other as individuals based on true worth, rather than superficial judgments of the world.
